wishingthehoursaway:

friendlyangryfeminist:

Seriously fuck him.. 

Is anyone terribly surprised he quoted Dan Savage, who’s said to speak for the LGBT+ community while hatin’ on bisexuals, trans* people and lesbians? 

And now he wants to explain how a cis man needs women to affirm and accept his manly, manly sperm in order to love his body!

For a young man raised with the sense that his body – and especially his penis – is “disgusting”, a woman’s willingness to accept a facial is an intensely powerful source of affirmation.

WHAT THE FUCK.

Cis men, let me affirm something: The world is designed to appreciate your penis. The phallus is a symbol of power. 

The fastest growing cosmetic surgery isn’t for your penis, it is for vaginas. Cis men aren’t sold wipes that hurt their genitals, not the way people with vaginas are. 

Oh, sure, cis men get small dick jokes - and I’m not saying that’s acceptable. Whatever your size of penis, it is fine. It’s natural. But those jokes don’t go anywhere. Jokes about how gross and weird vaginas are? Those jokes turn in douching, into vaginal reconstruction, into people thinking their vaginas are gross.

I can’t count on two hands the amount of people I know who have never received oral sex because they think their vaginas are “weird”.

So FUCK YOU HUGO SCHWYER and telling people that if they love the men in their lives, they should accept facials. 

(There’s nothing wrong with liking facials, receiving or giving. There is something terribly wrong with guilting people into any sexual practice) 

Ok this is the last straw. Because of my happyness that a guy id’d as a feminist/seemed to get it I’ve overlooked all the horrible things HS has said/done but this commentary has made me realise how willingly I’ve accepted HS’s commentary and how unacceptable itoften is.

Fuck you Hugo Schywzer. There is no sex practice a woman “should” consent to. There is no sex practice ANYONE “should” consent to. THERE IS NO FUCKING “SHOULD” ABOUT IT.

Gah. I feel like I should say more but I can’t find any words.